John Gardner

19 yrs experience as a high school band director. 14 yrs as college adjunct faculty. 30+ yrs in the fundraising industry and 24 yrs as a small business owner. (Don't add all those up.). Experience in both the fundraising sales and education worlds give me a unique combination of perspectives in both. I love working with the youthful enthusiasm of today's teenage achievers and with those who work with them. Also 6yrs as proprietor of VirtualMusicOffice.com, which offers a wide variety of virtual services including web/blog design/hosting/managing, social media management (scheduling posts/tweets for maximum impact and brand enhancement) and small business consulting - specializing in school product fundraising.

My 3 Days in the USSR

On May 26, 1972, the USA and USSR signed the Anti-Ballistic Missile treaty. Less than a month later, I spent three tense days in Moscow as part of a cultural exchange program; a member of the United States Collegiate Wind Band (USCWB), conducted by Prof Al G. Wright, then Director of Bands at Purdue University. The group included approximately 120 recent high school graduates from 26 states. After three days of rehearsals in New York, the USCWB left for a three-week tour with three days in Moscow.

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Why kill firefighters?

Beverly Hills fire, May 28, 1977. David Kohl photo

Idaho firefighter killings so tragic. Like police, firefighters run toward danger, now away from it. My off-duty, and without equipment, firefighter dad ran into this fire that killed 160+, incl my hs clarinet teacher. Firefighters would die for you. I feel so for the families left behind. And this guy wanted to be one of them? I can’t get wrapped around that…at all. Please don’t inject politics. ps Dad survived.

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The Markets and My Retirement

This is non-scientific…generally speaking, ok? Markets were ok after the inauguration and then tanked at tariffs. It was all doom/gloom. Except….Trump, who said the short-term pain would be worth the gain. He was right. My retirement is currently higher than it has EVER been…ever! If you like this, follow me. Haters can go elsewhere.

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Honoring Shani Gabay from Oct 7 Nova Festival

Pic from Igram post by stand.with.Israel

This is Shani Gabay on October 7th at the Nova music festival, wounded by gunfire, bleeding, her face filled with fear, pleading for help.

She was murdered inside an ambulance, along with other young people trying to escape.

To understand the cruelty, Shani was considered missing for 47 days. Only then was it discovered that her remains had been buried together with the body of another young woman murdered beside her.

Shani was just 25.


The more I see in this pic, the more evil it becomes. Looks like a female behind Shani … was she killed in the ambulance too? The ambulance is there. And the guys near her, wrist bands….different colors….what do those mean. To think that they are about to kill her.

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Broken Trust and the Damage Bad Teachers Cause

By John Gardner

Cracking and crumbling of the word TrustAnother news story of a teacher caught up in a sexual situation with students. Sad and disturbing on multiple levels because at least two lives are damaged — forever changed. Students become hesitant to open up to and trust teachers. Parents become understandably hyper-sensitive and maybe over-protective.

Most teachers work so hard to build proper, trust-based relationships with students. 

My intent was never to make students obey commands because I was the authority in the classroom. I wanted them to listen and want to follow my guidance because they TRUSTed that what I am saying was best for the ensemble collectively and for him/her individually. I didn’t want to be their ‘best bud’. I wanted to be a life-mentor, someone they will look back at 20 years from now with favorable memories of someone who helped them get through some of their high school hurdles.

Of course, there are several reasons for a student to hesitate to trust: 1) parents have broken trust between themselves and with their children — so the teen, wanting protection from future pain, erects a shield to keep people out, 2) friends break trust — so hurt teens conclude trust is risky and 3) teachers like the one in the news.

So who am I to expect students to trust ME? I get it. It makes me sad sometimes — when I sense that a student really needs to talk through something but is afraid to lower that shield. Or when I see one heading in a potentially negative life-impacting (but not physically dangerous) direction and regrettably conclude that, because it is none of my ‘business’, i.e. outside my teaching subject, that I need to stay in my space and not try to cross over into his/hers.  I do understand.

As I started writing, I realized I’ve said variations of all this before. I used the search function on my blog, entered “trust” and found the following:  …

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Captured Oct 7, Survived 11 months, Murdered

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Account “permanently disabled”

I use a password safety program to generate passwords. This one is not real, but is the type I use. Even so, someone was able to hack my M3ta/Fbk account and cause my FB page to be “permanently disabled”. Appeal denied. No further appeals allowed. I had 20+yrs, hundreds of friends and probably thousands of posts/pics in albums from hs, college, teaching, family, friends…. So sad. I will be doing more with non-M*t@ programs. Stay tuned.

It happened to suddenly. I was IN the program when it went blank. While I was trying to figure out what happened, my wife came in to tell me a friend had contacted her and asked her if I was okay, and that when she tried to look me up, I didn’t exist.

I could not access the “help”, “hacked”, “identify” or other links suggested by every source I could find. I got messages like:

Facebook suspended

I’ll be writing more, but here are some things I’ve learned (so far) through this experience:

  • There are plenty of scams on media sites that ask you to follow or call individuals. I heard things like, “I’m an honest professional, sir”, and “I will do an honest job for you, sir”…

If someone tells you they are honest, professional and will do a great job for you, or if everything sentence ends in “sir”, …..RUN!

  • I tried one of those “Ask a Question” site that came up in a “social media recovery” search. I paid the initial $5 and understood that if I decided to continue, there would be an additional charge. I chose NOT to continue, but when I checked my credit card account, I found TWO charges, one for the $5 I knew about and a $40 charge that said it was the first monthly payment of a subscription to which I “signed up” for. After calling the company, escalating the case, and arguing with the “manager” that I wanted to utilize their “money-back” guarantee. Only then did I receive a credit.

Before you click on one of those “Ask-Us-Anything” type of  online tech support, or at least before you authorize any payment (especially if it seems innocent enough, such as a $1 or $5 payment), READ THE FINE PRINT.

  • Someone suggested I try the “Geek Squad” as they are trying to expand their services. I called and was told they could help, so I scheduled an appoint, which required I bring an affected device to the store. Fair enough. The tech was helpful and informative, and offered a couple suggestions of paths to take, but indicated his store’s “contracts” would prevent him from doing any more there. NO CHARGE.

The Best Buy Geek Squad tech was very polite, professional, empathetic and helpful, even though he was not able to resolve my case.

Since it didn’t look like I was going to recover my account, I chose the option to “Create a New Account”. I put in my phone, used a different email (the one I had been using wasn’t acceptable), did the video facial recognition and clicked to submit. At that point it told me my “appeal” would be addressed in 48 hours. It only took 1-2. Then….

 

If you have a recommendation, I would appreciate it.

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Band Students Make Better Employees

Hire MeBy John Gardner

Teens are looking for part-time jobs during high school. Common is the parental directive that he must at least pay the insurance and for the gas to drive the family car — or to purchase her own vehicle.

The challenge, for both the student and the employer is the complexity of band student’s schedule.

Band  students make better employees and employers find the payback for working around rehearsal and performance schedules is a win-win for the business too.

Marching bands start training right after school is out in the Spring, if not before. During these early sessions, a challenge is to keep the newbies from giving up.

After enjoying top-of-the-heap status in middle school they start high school marching band at the bottom of the section with the lowest status and the least seniority. New skill requirements include memorizing music, horn angles, posture and feet-with-the-beat. Never before have they had to endure high temperature rehearsals that last 2-3-4 hours at a time, often standing with water and restroom breaks few and far between. Everybody (directors, staff, section leaders, seniors, upperclassmen) is telling them they’re messing up and pressuring (hopefully constructively) them to “get it”. They are thrust into a whole new level of physical activity with a strict discipline code. Some will quit and most will think about it as they try to answer the question, “What did I get myself into?”

“Band will be fun. It is fun being together during the football games, on the buses for those long trips, and for hours at competitions. But before you get to the fun part, you have to pay the price…..and there is no short cut, no easy way out, no discount. Pay the price and enjoy the results.”

By the time they are old enough to get a job, they have learned to pay the price. They have seen the benefits of dedication and are willing to commit to a job. Band students won’t quit the job because the manager gives them criticism because they understand that is what makes them better. And they learn that striving for excellence is a worthy goal.

Band students understand dedication, commitment
and that striving for excellence is a worthy goal.
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At the age they are joining marching band, teens are battling with balancing the reality that they are not quite adults with the increasing desire for freedom, responsibility and individuality. Some rebel against parents, push back against teachers and are super-sensitive to peer-criticism. And yet, marching band requires they give up individual freedoms for the good of the cause, makes them earn responsibility and tells them they have to look, act and behave like everybody else – uniformity.

The first time they are thrust into a fast-paced, pressurized workplace environment, teens from the general school population will be more likely to throw a tantrum, quit — or get fired. Not band students.

Band students understand the value of,
and respect for chain of command
.
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Students are together in lots of different classroom mixes, but only for fifty minutes on school days for a semester or two. Band students can be together for 10-15 hours Monday through Thursday, plus 3 hours for a Friday night football game and 14 hours for a Saturday rehearsal/competition. Couples break up, personalities don’t mesh, they come from different parts of town and with different family and economic situations — but they learn to work together, a skill many non-band teens and a lot of adults never develop.

As I talk to teens (and even many of their parents), one of the most common reasons to quit a job is because of relationships with co-workers. Band students will be even more frustrated with the mediocrity and lack of cooperation and weak work ethic they will find in the workplace, but they will commit to making it work.

Band students know how to cooperate
and collaborate with those from
different backgrounds and capabilities.
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In a part-time work environment there will be competition for hours, raises, promotions and responsibilities. The tendency is to look out for self and to heck with the other guy. Students compete within a band but they want everyone to do well. They compete with other bands but will wish them good luck as they pass on the way to the competition field. They will applaud for other bands – even those that beat them. Band students are team players and they understand sportsmanship.

Band students learn good sportsmanship.

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By the time they’re ready for that first job (students usually turn 16 during sophomore or junior year), band students have already learned patience as marching band staff is teaching or fixing drill; perseverance and endurance through extreme temperatures, long rehearsals and so much more we teacher types throw at them.

They understand, through the system of seniority in most bands, that they will need to prove themselves and demonstrate strong work ethic to earn leadership positions or, when they get a job,  a raise.

Band students learn patience,
perseverance and endurance.
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There is often a penalty for arriving late to a band rehearsal. When I was in a marching band, it was a lap around the field per minute late. Some bands use push-ups — or job assignments. Arrive late today and you get to take the water to the field tomorrow. And because there are always new things happening in a rehearsal, missing is never an option. Some bands will make you an alternate for an unexcused absence. So when band students get a job with a schedule, they are there — and on time.

Band students learn the value
of attendance and punctuality.
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Bands rehearse scores of hours per minute of marching band show. Stretches, running and endurance exercises, fundamentals (yes, they already know how to march, right?) and then sets of drill over, and over. Do they get tired? Absolutely, but they understand the price of success and that there are no shortcuts to achieving it.

Band students learn that there are
no shortcuts to success
.
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Most years, prior to the final competition of the season, we allow seniors to talk to the band. They say a variety of things, but there are two predominant themes: 1) Band is family, and 2) band taught them responsibility with accountability.

Band students learn
responsibility and accountability
.
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Where, outside of public education, is the focus on making the student (or employee) feel good about themselves at the expense of excellence? We read about schools eliminating valedictorians and class rank or even grades, so lower achievers don’t get a negative vibe.  

When my child was in first grade, the education fad of the day was a program called “writing to read”, where the emphasis was on the child being able to read whatever they wrote. Spelling, grammar, punctuation, etc…. were not corrected. Teachers emphasized that a child reader would have a higher self-esteem.

Students who have gone through a feel-good system can hit a brick wall when they get to college or into the workforce. Good band directors instill in their students that a healthy self-esteem comes through achieving excellence. In that pursuit, however, the student learns to accept criticism from directors, staff, seniors and section leaders – and they are willing to pay the price to get the prize. Here is a post I wrote about Excellence and Self Esteem.

Band students learn that self-esteem
is raised by achieving excellence
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Because of their extreme rehearsal schedules on top of homework and, especially with the responsibilities of a job, band students develop good time management skills.

Band students develop time management skills
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Band students make better employees. Hire them.

 

 

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Dr. William Revelli

William Revelli was a legendary Director of Bands at the University of Michigan for decades. I didn’t know that when he stepped on the podium to rehearse the high school clinic band I was in at the Morehead State University. There were six bands. I was in the top (Honor) band and had earned the first chair. That was a pretty big deal — and so was he.

Two remembrances of that Honor Band experience. These are the only two things I remember. I can’t tell you what we played or anything else. But these made a lasting imprint.

At precisely the start time for the rehearsal, Dr. Revelli stepped onto the podium, introduced himself, pointed to two empty chairs and asked that they be removed. Some of us could see the two girls walking quickly toward the stage via the auditorium isle. When they got the the stage, Revelli asked what they were doing.

“We’re in this band.”

“No. You’re not. There are no more chairs.”

“What are we supposed to do?”

“Go tell someone to put you in a different band.
My rehearsal has already started.”

And then, he turned to ME and asked me to stand. He asked my name and turns to the band and introduces me as their Concert Master. And then, he asked me to play a tuning note. I did.

After a pause, he asks me to play it again. I did.

“No, play the same note you played the first time.”
(He was saying I didn’t match my first pitch.)

“I can do that.”, said the 4th chair clarinet guy

“No, you cannot. You are not the Concert Master.”

And then, rehearsal proceeded.

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